Sunday, December 22, 2013

Merry Christmas!

What a week!  I say that like it was super busy, which it was for two days.  Unfortunately two days kinda got wasted because of the LTO (Land Transportation Office) and the fiasco that was me trying to get my license.  The first day we went and after waiting for about two hours they told me I wouldn't be able to get my license right then.  They said I needed to come back the next day and take a test and they charged me  2,500 pesos. The next day we went back and waited for another three hours.  They charged me more pesos, took my picture, got my signature, and told me all they need now is my passport to verify that I have a current visa.  I guess when the area office scanned my passport, the visa they scanned expired in March 2013.  So that is all I am waiting for now to get my license.  I am hoping it doesn't take another four weeks to get scanned and sent. 

It was another great week of work in Ma-ao.  In just two days we were able to teach 13 lessons and find 37 new investigators!  Some of the things we did to find those investigators were first for me.  We taught a lesson in the Barangay Hall to a few of the Barangay officials and also met with and talked with the Barangay captain.  We invited him to church and he said he would come, but then he didn't.  O-well, maybe next week!  We also went to a funeral open house.  We taught a lesson to a family of 11 with the casket of their dead brother right next to me.  It was such a great lesson and we are going back this week for a return appointment. 

I am super excited to Skype with the family on Christmas.  Thirty minutes isn't going to be long enough, but just being able to see and talk to you all will be the best gift ever!  After that we have a baptism.  Sister Nieva Cenidoza is going to be baptized by President Lopez.  We thought it would be a good gift to him to be able to baptize someone on Christmas day.  Sister Nieva is awesome.  She is super wealthy and is actually from Chicago.  She was born and raised in the Philippines, but moved to Chicago for work.  She gets mad whenever we try speaking Illongo to her, so all the lessons are in English and it is tough!  I don't know if I have ever taught someone who I know with surety will endure to the end.  She has had a very tough past and made a lot of mistakes, but she is incredibly repentant and all she wants to do is go back and live with Heavenly Father.  She told me after one year she is going to come to America and go through the Salt Lake temple.  She wants me to go there with her and I promised I would.  The sad thing is that her husband died and she does not want to be sealed to him.  I think it is sad, but I am sure everything gets worked out in the next life!

This week I have been thinking a lot about angels.  I have studied a little about them, but honestly I still don't know all that much.   I do know that they are here though.  I am the luckiest person in the world because I have five very special angels in my life.  One that is beyond the veil that I know is with me more than I realize.  Grandma Wilstead has taught me more about God's love than anyone else in my life.  The other four are on this side of the veil.  First, and foremost, is my mother.  She truly is an angel.  No other word could accurately describe her.  If it weren't for us four boys, she would have gone to heaven a long time ago.  I don't know how dad got her, but good job pops!  Grandma Olcott has always been one of the most loving people I know and has never been too busy to spend time with us grandkids.  Of course Melissa was one of the more literal angels that was sent to me.  I don't know what else to call the answer to a prayer, and that is exactly what she was and is.  Her mother, Natalie, has the best timing ever!  Whenever I feel super homesick, I can expect to be getting a package from her.  Even if it is just candy and a card, it is always just what I needed!  I'm not going to call Dad, Kody, and Logan angels, but they are definitely blessings in my life!

Merry Christmas!  I love you all!


Erick Cayao, Elder Peralta, and Gami

Welcome to Ma-ao

Sunday, December 15, 2013

Still Waiting for the Passport

Our week was good.  My passport still hasn't come in, but we were able to go and work in Ma-ao on Sunday and it was an awesome experience.  We were able to find six new investigators and I can say that the people there are so ready to hear this gospel.  After being there for a day, Elder Peralta and I cannot wait to go back on Wednesday to work more!  I feel like miracles are going to happen there.  As I only have six months left in my mission, I hope that is where I get to finish off my mission.

I want to share just one experience that we had yesterday that kinda shows how prepared these people are for this gospel.  We met the Barrientos Family.  They have listened to the missionaries before but nothing really came of it.  When we first got there it was only the mother that we were teaching.  She was telling us how badly she wants her son Michael to change.  He is 21 and has a lot of bad habits because of his group of friends.  As we were promising his mother that our message will change her entire family's life, she was just bawling.  Then her son Michael shows up, and I swear I have seen this kid before--but I haven't.  (Sounds weird, I know)  Anyways, he comes in and sits down.  He tells us about his desire to give up some of his bad habits and how he wants to feel "light" and not feel so heavy all the time because of his sins.  It was way cool.  I was able to bear testimony to him that I know this gospel will change us because I have experienced it in my own life.  We committed the mom and Michael to be baptized on January 17, then after we got home we got a call from the mom saying she had talked to her husband and they all want to be baptized on Christmas Day--they said January 18 was too far away.  Unfortunately, they have to attend church four times before they can be baptized, but I just thought it was awesome that they want it so bad.  Michael also told us during the lesson that he would really like to try serving a mission one day.  It was just super cool.  I  haven't known that family very long, but I seriously love them so much.  That is what happens here, you fall in love with the people so quickly that it is insane!

I love you all and hope you have a great week!

Sunday, December 8, 2013

Look to the Savior

This week was another good week.  We were expecting to be heading off to Ma-ao, but because of the delay in my passport we were unable to.  President Lopez doesn't feel comfortable with us going there without a car because we will have to be traveling back and forth from La Carlota.  Our house won't be ready to move into until the 23rd of December.

We were able to witness a tender mercy from the Lord this week.  Our baptism was not looking so promising as of Friday afternoon.  However, we never lost faith that our investigator would get the long, very long, awaited okay from her father.  It is so tough because she is only a year away from not needing permission at all and knowing how badly she wanted to be baptized was testing all of our faith.  But between the four of us trying just about every other hour to catch her very busy father at home, finally Elder's Doane and Sablan were able to talk with him and remove the miscommunication that was causing his worry.  I think he was under the impression we were trying to get his daughter to become a nun!  Anyways, he finally agreed and now we have a return appointment with his family.

Yesterday we went to Bago 1st Ward.  It was a great experience.  When all the members knew we were assigned to Ma-ao, they were more than eager to give us referrals.  We also found two young men preparing for missions that want to work with us!  They are both over 18, so we have the perfect set up for member exchanges once we have learned the area.  We have one active member who is also a recent convert, but just wait and see--he will become our first branch president in Ma-ao!!!!

So this week in my personal study, I came across something really cool.  I was reading the Bible in Matthew Chapter 14.  In this chapter there is the story of Peter walking on the water.  I always kinda read right over this and never really tried to think about how this story could apply to my life.  Anyways, the apostles were on a boat in the middle of the Sea of Galilee and a big storm came.  As they were trying to make all things ready so the boat wouldn't flip, they saw a man in the middle of the tempest.  They were very afraid until the man spoke, saying, in verse 27, ". . .it is I, be not afraid."  That was the point they recognized that being as Jesus Christ.  Peter instantly begged the Lord for the opportunity to walk out to Him on the water and the Lord permitted him to.  Now this is where the lesson comes in.  When Peter starts walking, he has not trouble at all.  It says in verse 29 that he walked on the water to " . . . go to Jesus."  When I read that, I figured his eyes were set on the Lord with nothing wavering--not his vision or his faith.  But then we read in verse 30 that the winds became boisterous and Peter got afraid.  At this point I am sure Peter took his eyes off the Savior and began to look at the storm that was encircling him.  This fear caused him to start sinking.  When at that time in desperation he returned his focus to the Lord and cried, " . . . Lord save me."  Immediately Jesus set his hand out and caught His sinking Apostle.  Then in verse 31 it says, " . . . Oh thou of little faith, wherefore didst thou doubt?"  The Lord knew the whole time all Peter needed to do to continue walking on the water was to continue to focus on the Lord.

Now for the application to our lives.  So many times we, like Peter, are so confident in our faith and truly feel like we can walk on water.  We start and everything is going so good because our view is fixed on our Savior.  Then Satan comes in and throws doubt into our lives or sometimes Heavenly Father sends us trials to make us stronger.  We start to worry and start focusing on ourselves.  We literally take our eyes off the Savior and His power to help us.

Another scripture that came into my mind as I was reading this was in D&C 6:36-37.  In verse 36 the Lord says, "Look unto me in every thought; doubt not, fear not."  I love that He uses the word look.  It works perfect with this story.  He is pretty much saying to us, please don't worry about this.  Don't be afraid--I got this one!  But then even to add to it, in verse 37 He gives His own qualifications for deserving our faith.  It says, "Behold the wounds which pierced my side, and also the prints of the nails in my hands and feet . . . "  That verse hit me with a lot of power.  I seriously feel like Jesus is begging us saying, "look at these scars in my hands and on my feet, look at the wound in my side.  I have every single one of your fears, sorrows, trials, pleadings, etc. written into my body.  If anyone can help you, it is me.  So don't be afraid, I will help you!"

I just want to end with my testimony that being members of this church doesn't mean we live a life full of joy here on this earth.  If this church wasn't true, Satan wouldn't even pay attention to us. All the trials and doubts and struggles we feel is a testimony to me that this is true. I know that our Savior lives and I know He loves each and every one of us with a love that is far, far beyond our ability to understand.  All we need to do is try our best, and He will take care of the rest.

I love you all so much.  I hope this is able to help someone in some way!



 

Sunday, December 1, 2013

Happy Birthday

This was a crazy week.  We went on three exchanges with the Bago zone leaders and it was good.  So, I am transferring again.  This time to Ma-ao.  It is actually a barangay of Bago City in Negros Occidental.  Anyways, there have never been missionaries there before.  It is what is called an open area.  President know there is one member family there, but other than that he knows little about it.  Elder Peralta and I kinda feel like someone hit us over the head with a 2x4.  We had 25 baptisms planned in our area for December, including 10 on Christmas Day and now we are opening an area, meaning a big 0 for baptisms in December.  O-well, such is life right? 

My birthday was good--much better than the last one.  I was actually on exchanges in the morning and then I went home around 10:30 and opened my presents.  After that Elder Peralta and I went to work together for the first time all week.  While we were out, Elder Doane texted us and told us to meet them for pizza after we were done working.  They all treated me to pizza and wings for my birthday dinner which was awesome!

I heard a quote the other day from one of our new missionaries straight from the MTC.  He said, "You have two years to work as hard as you can, and an eternity to think about it."  I loved that!

So far, being an AP has sucked!!!!!  Just kidding.  I have had fun, but I have been sick for two weeks because we are so busy and I don't have time to get better!  I like the expectations that are placed on us though. 

Hope everyone has a great week. Love you all!

Sunday, November 24, 2013

Happy Thanksgiving

This was a great week!  It started off extremely spiritual with the meetings with the new missionaries and then we were able to get some great work done.  Being an AP is a great opportunity.  I have very humbly prayed and asked for divine help as I try to do what I feel so inadequate at being able to do by myself.  It is so great being with three other missionaries that have the same desire to work and to see the blessing this is in people's life as I do.  I am so excited to watch the work in this ward!

This week is going to be a pretty busy one for us.  We have exchanges coming up with Bacolod North, Bacolod South, and the Bago zone leaders.  I am excited and know that we will have another successful week with many more miracles.  We have a great investigator named Sister Nieva.  She is a perfect example of the rich and the learned.  She truly has been so prepared by the Lord to accept this gospel.  She is very excited and is extremely in tune with the spirit.

I was really hoping to have great news about the football game, but it's okay.  I told Elder Doane earlier today that no matter what happened with the game, I wouldn't be more proud than I was the day that Kody told me he was going on a mission and nothing would stop him from serving.

I want to share an experience that I had a couple of days ago.  I was really trying to figure out what I have gained from my mission that has changed my life.  That sounds weird, because every week I share experiences that have changed my life here.  But, this was more like what has really changed me.  I thought about it for a couple of days actually and I just barely received my answer--actually during emailing you!  I now know that this gospel is true.  Before it was just something that I felt or something that I "hoped" to be true because I didn't have a lot of other things to go on.  I said I knew and I used that when I bore testimony because in my limited knowledge, I really thought I did know.  But now I KNOW it is true.  I know it, not just feel it.  I hope I never lose it, because I am more genuinely more happy than I have ever been in my life right now.  It sucks being away from you all, but the fact that I wake up every day with a smile on my face is because I am doing the things that bring true happiness.  So, when I get home and start complaining because I don't know what to do, just slap me in the face with this email!

I hope you all  have a great week!  I love you all so much!  Hope you have a good Thanksgiving.

First training as an Assistant to the President

Feeling the effects of no sleep

Elder Peralta and me

The food is always the best part of our meetings


Sunday, November 17, 2013

New Assignment

This was a good week.  Yesterday we had 134 people at sacrament meeting in Canlaon.  Much better than the 77 my first Sunday here.  Elder Edem, Elder Bragas, Elder Cudac, and I have truly witnessed miracles in this area.  Together we had 16 investigators at sacrament meeting.  This area would really explode if another companionship was placed here.  The field is white all ready to harvest--we just need the laborers!!!

So here is the news . . . I was assigned as an Assistant to the President today.  Honestly, I have mixed emotions about it.  I am excited because it is a great opportunity, but I am a little sad about some of the changes.  Please pray for me.  I am going to need them!

It is my first day as AP and I am already not going to get a P-day!  I have until noon to do what I need to get done and then we are super busy.  We have 15 new missionaries from Tacloban arriving today and I have to give one of the trainings for them.  I can't believe they are adding missionaries to our mission.  We are already over capacity, but it's all good!  The more, the merrier!  I really am praying that I show up and I see Elder Murdock, but I don't think I am that lucky!

One of the great things that I realized this week as I reflected on my mission is this:  When you look for faults in people, you find them.  As you may have noticed, it has been over a month since I have complained about President Lopez.  I took a long time one day and thought about everything.  I realized that I had started looking for faults in him.  I stopped looking at the things I admired about him when I got here, and started looking for reasons to complain and to do my own thing.   Funny how during that time, it was probably one of the harder parts of my mission.  For the last month I have really tried doing what President Bangerter told me to do.  I'm trying to look for the qualities he has that qualifies him to be such a great mission president.  It actually started about a month ago when Elder Nielson of the Quorum of the Seventy came to visit.  He said that missionaries are assigned to mission presidents, not missions.  I think this can apply to all of us though, no matter what situations we are in.  Looking for the bad in people is not the gospel of Jesus Christ.  It stands in horrible opposition of it.

On Wednesday we had our zone training with President Lopez.  He showed us a video of what it looks like in Tacloban right now, and within seconds I was bawling.  I cannot believe the destruction over there. I hope all of you know how much I love these people,  I have really grown attached to them.  Somewhere between getting mad at being called "Joe" 24/7 and all the poverty, I have truly fallen in love with these people.  The worst part is that even if you were to visit here, you could never understand by just spending a week with them.  I have never met a kinder people in all my life.  They would bend over backwards just to help a complete stranger who doesn't speak their language and is fresh out of America.  So many times I have seen people who own little more than the shirt on their back take a family into their home because the family lost theirs.  Everyone here believes in Jesus Christ (except the Muslims in Mindanao), even if that faith is a little misguided.  It hurts to know that such good people had to suffer so bad, because they don't deserve it.  But, if there was ever a country that will pull together, it is this country.

Also on a sad note, Brother Contreras, the father of that family that I haven been teaching in Canlaon, the ones I really care about, came to church on Sunday!  Okay, that part isn't sad, but it is kinda sad that the day he comes is my last day in the area.  I guess now is the time I really need to trust in Heavenly Father.

I love you all so much!  Kody is going to bring home a state championship!  I'm telling you, it is meant to be!!!!!!


Sunday, November 10, 2013

Post Typhoon Yolanda

I am so glad to hear all of the missionaries are safe.  One of my best friends is serving the Tacloban right now and I have been a little worried about him. I know that the Lord takes care of His missionaries, so I am sure he is fine.

Being in San Carlos for three days was a little crazy.  By the end of it I was fighting to get out and just be outside!  It is amazing how much better it is being out and about working.  Being inside for all those days was just torture for 9 people who are used to being out of the house 10+ hours a day.  We only proslyted two days last week and it had to be the longest week of my mission!  By Friday afternoon, I was ready to tear some heads off!  I am sure all of you can imagine me after 24 hours non-stop with 8 other guys!  All in all, it was fun.  Elder Shaffer, Elder Ellis, Elder Pulsipher and I just pretty much sat on the balcony for three days watching the storm, talking about life, etc.  I was good, but it got me super trunky!  All of these natural disasters are pretty crazy experiences for a kid from St. George.  I mean earthquakes, typhoons, and an active volcano that burps smoke about once a week is a little sketchy for me, but I guess it is all part of the experience!

I sure hope all of you have your 72 hour kits ready.  Why?  Because we were stuck in a house for how many hours?  72!  Hmmm, I think that must be a coincidence!  Seriously, one thing all these things are teaching me is that the prophets are for real.  Two weeks ago, Neil L. Anderson warned all the people he spoke to here that they needed their 72 hours kits.  What more evidence do we need that these men know things that we don't!  Also, all of these things are getting me so excited for the second coming!  It is close, I am just praying I get to see it happen.  If not, I am going to have a front row seat from the Spirit World!!!!!!

Coming back to Canlaon on Saturday was interesting.  We got to our house and it was flooded.  We spent the first three hours just trying to fix up our own house.  After we got all the water out, we went out and visited investigators and members.  The good news is that most of the houses were left intact and not too much damage was done to anything but banana trees. There were a couple of homes that fell over because they were only made of bamboo, but the church was open so they were able to stay there during the storm and nobody was seriously injured.  After that, we both had the impression to go to the church.  We went and the relief society was passing out relief goods, so we helped for a bit.  We kinda felt like we were wasting our times, so I was unsure why we had both felt inspired to go there.  As we were about to leave, six kids showed up and asked to borrow a basketball to play.  Elder Bragas immediately said, "Yes, but first we are doing a devotional."  And, that is the story of Canlaon Branch's first basketball day! What started as a church tour with six little kids turned into over 50+ young and college-aged who showed up.  Honestly, we were unprepared for that many people, but we are going to talk about ways we can improve.  I just thought it was pretty amazing that something unplanned had such a crazy turnout.

Unfortunately, there is nothing cool to update you on--just a super boring week!  I love you all and hope you are all doing well!

Sunday, October 27, 2013

Monkeying Around

I hope everyone had a good week.  It was a good one for Elder Cudac and I.  We were able to reach our highest key indicator totals for the transfer.  That is probably because this is our first full week when we didn't have anything that took us away from working.  It was also rewarding because we were able to have another baptism.

The blessings have really been with us this month.  When you told me I was training again and especially with me not even knowing the new language, I was terrified.  I didn't know what was going to happen.  But again, as He has throughout my whole mission, Heavenly Father showed me that as long as you just "go and do," He will prepare the way for you.

Elder Cudac told me this week how President Lopez described me in his first interview with him.  I laughed as he told me he was actually pretty worried to meet me.  President had told him I work hard, I am competitive, I want to be the best, I am obedient, and I don't care for my companions!  Everything is true except the not caring for my companions.  I will be the first to admit that I have had a few companions that I have struggled with, but I really do care about them.  I told Elder Cudac that I hope I have been able to show him that I really do care about him.  I was having a pretty good laugh when he was telling me all about that.

So this letter might skip all over the place.  I am sorry, but I will try to clearly move from one point to the other.

First, I want to talk about my personal experience with the prayer challenge.  It was a little harder than I expected.  I came to the realization that sometimes I am pretty selfish in my prayers--just asking, asking, asking.  I realized just how blessed I truly am.  Another thing I realized is all of the hidden blessings in our trials.  This week was full of them for me, but I think Heavenly Father was just testing me to see if I could really do it, and I did!  Another thing I realized is that by doing this, it became more like I was just talking to my Father in Heaven--not so much like a drive-thru order.

Next, I want to talk about something I realized this morning while I was studying.  It is this--ENJOY THE JOURNEY!  Gosh, this life sucks sometimes, doesn't it?  Haha, there is no other way to say it, but we need to enjoy it.  That sounds hard!  As I was thinking about it, if I were to list all the parts of serving a mission, it would sound like hell.  That's the honest truth, but I am happy almost all the time.  I have no idea why though!  The only thing I can say is making that happen is because I read and pray every day.  Sounds silly and super missionary of me, but that is it.  That stuff invites the Spirit and the Spirit won't give feelings of sadness.  Here are a couple of scriptures to study if you want.  It will be best if you study them in order.  2 Nephi 2:22, D&C 95:1, Alma 7:11-12 and D&C 58:3-4.  I think you will see what I tried doing by placing them in that order!

Next, Book of Mormon reading.  I heard something this week that I think could put all of our hearts at ease.  let's be honest.  I don't know if any of us understand everything we read in there.  But I hope this story helps:

There was a grandpa and his grandson sitting by a fireplace.  The grandson turns to the grandpa and says, "Grandpa, I don't want to read the Book of Mormon.  I don't understand anything in it and I don't get anything from it."  The grandpa paused for a second and said, "Pull some of those coals out of the fireplace and put them in this basket (the basket had holes in it).  After the grandson did that, the grandpa told him to go to the pond in the backyard and fill the bucket with water.  The grandson, a little confused knowing the water would drain, hesitantly did as he was told and returned.  The grandpa said, "I need a buck of water, go do it again please."  Without objecting the grandson did it again and returned.  The same thing happened--the water drained and only the coals were left when he returned to his grandpa.  The grandpa again said, "I need water, please go get me a bucket of water.  The grandson then asked, "Can I get a different bucket?"  The grandpa replied, "No, use the same one."  Grudgingly, the grandson continues for five more trips.  Finally the grandpa asks, "Was the bucket able to contain the coals?"  The grandson replies, "Of course not, it has holes."  Then the grandpa tells him to look at the coals.  The grandson looks down to see the coals which were once dirty and dull, now they were clean and shining.  The grandpa then said, "Just because we have holes in our spiritual capacity to learn, it doesn't mean the affect will be any different.  We may not retain all we read, but the affect is the same.  It will polish and clean us and make a difference in our lives, even when we don't see it.  So that being said, read the Book of Mormon every day!  Even if it is just a verse.  YOU WILL BE HAPPY!  I promise you that.  I dare you to put that promise to the test.

Next, I was looking at myself in the mirror yesterday . . . a little vain, I know!  But, I realized that sometime in the past 16 months, I became a man.  I don't look like a chubby kid anymore.  My face looks like a man's face, I can grow a beard in like two days, my voice is deeper, I handle situations a lot more maturely now and . . . I look like a man.  It kinda freaked me out a bit!  I mean, I am a very good looking man, but still I look like a man!  Haha!  Just a little food for thought!

Next, the monkeys!  I hope you all like the photos.  Yes, I did get bit by one of them, but it was my fault.  I was teasing the monkey and he actually slapped me in the face first!  It was the funniest thing ever.  I was like, holy crap, I just got slapped by a monkey!  So what did I do?  I kept teasing him like an idiot and he bit the hand I was holding the bread in!  Anyways, I had no idea that they were literally going to climb on me.  The ran right up and jumped on me.  I was so shocked that I dropped my camera.  Yes, it broke and now I have to buy a new one or try to get mine fixed.  Nevertheless, it was the coolest thing I have done on my mission.  When we come back to visit, we are definitely going there.  It blows my mind how much they act like humans!  Monkeys have always been one of my favorite animals, so I was definitely like a kid in a candy store.  I am sure you can tell by some of the photos.

Anyways, I love you all so much!  I hope you all have great weeks.  I can't wait for football to start again.  Hey-16 months as a missionary and only 8 more to go.  Guess what that means!  If mom and dad wanted to give me another little brother I would be there for the birth!  Haha--just a thought!

Love you all!










Monday, October 21, 2013

Lots of Photos

This was a great week.  It started off on Tuesday with an earthquake!  The epicenter was two islands over, but it was still 5.6 magnitude here.  We were studying when it happened, then all of a sudden the picture of Melissa on my desk fell over and the world started shaking!  It was crazy!  Much stronger than the one that happened on my first day here.  Then there were three others throughout the week--none of which were as strong.  I didn't even feel the last one because we were out proslyting, but we got a call from President because we hadn't texted them to let them know we were okay.  We honestly couldn't even feel it!

The mission tour was great.  We got to listen to Elder Brent H. Nielson of the Seventy.  He did a great job and so did his wife.  At the end, they had a question/answer session.  I asked the first question and it was about how we can deal with the stress of missionary work.  Sister Nielson actually answered and she totally disregarded my question and answered the real question that I was too afraid to ask.  She talked for a bit and then said, "Elders and Sisters, do you want to know if your Heavenly Father is pleased with your work?  If you feel the spirit, then that means He is.  That is how Heavenly Father will communicate his love for you."  I was like, holy crap, this chick has the spirit of discernment . . . and ever since then I have just felt super calm about things.

Another thing that Elder Nielson said in reply to my question is something I think all of us could try to do in our lives, and that is to "SHOOT FOR STEADY."  So simple, yet so true.  Life is such a rollercoaster and one thing I want to do from now until the rest of my life, but specifically through the rest of my mission, is just shoot for steady--not get super high or super low.  That is much easier said than done, but I will try.

A little bit later today we are going to a monkey sanctuary.  It is sweet because there are no cages and if you bring food, the monkeys will climb on you and stuff.  I am super stoked!  Monkeys have always been one of my favorite animals.  Hopefully there will be lots of photos next week!!!

Hope you all have a great week!

This week's baptisms

The three elders I have trained on my mission

Results from the Philippines diet
 
I even have my own drink

Members showing up to help with the service project
 
Taking a break

I was in charge of tearing down this structure


Mission Tour with Elder Nielson


Masskara Festival



Sunday, October 13, 2013

General Conference

We were able to baptize Sister Corson this week.  She is the one that missed her husband's baptism because she was at the emergency room with her grandson.  It was a great service.  Even though there wasn't a lot of people there, the Spirit was very strong.  Sister Corson was a little confused about what a testimony was, so she stood up and prayed.  It was a little funny at first, but then Iheard the words she was saying.  It was amazing to hear her pray and bear her testimony to her Father in Heaven.  Her and her husband are not the rich, nor the learned.  They are both pretty old and I don't know how much strength they will give the ward, but I don't think I have ever baptized anyone with more pure faith in our Father in Heaven.  It has been such a privilege for me to get to know them.

I absolutely loved general conference--especially the Sunday morning session of conference.  I feel like all of the talks were in some way catered to me!  I guess that is how we are all supposed to feel though.

This coming week we have the mission tour with Elder and Sister Nielson.  I remember when Elder Evans came and the spirit that I felt there.  I am excited for the rejuvenating effect that I know this will have on my mission!

Hope you all have a great week!

Our American breakfast before going to watch General Conference

Sister Corson's baptism

Saturday morning session of general conference--
never a big turnout except for the missionaries!

These little girls run up to escort us home every time we come home!

Sunday, October 6, 2013

Just Another Week

This week was just another week--not much happened.  I did have to go to Bacolod on Saturday for fingerprinting.  I had to do that so I will be able to go home in July.  On our way back a diesel truck flipped on a bridge.  Since it was the only way to get back, we were stranded for about three hours waiting for them to get the truck cleared out.  Because of the delay, I missed the baptism but Elder Cudac took over and did a great job.

My ankle isn't swollen or bruised anymore, but at the end of the days it aches pretty bad.  We still keep working though!

I am super excited to watch general conference this coming week.  It is one of the best weekends ever!  I really want to go to the October session next year at the conference center.  I can't believe I have lived in Utah my whole life and never went to a live session of general conference.  When I tell people that, they look at me like I am crazy!  They can't believe that I don't see the prophet every day.  They don't understand that we aren't even close to Salt Lake City.

I just want you all to know that I love my Heavenly Father.  I know that there is nothing in all this world that will bring us more happiness than living the Gospel of His Son, Jesus Christ.  Trials happen to all of us.  They are ALWAYS for our good, even though I am not good at handling them sometimes.  I love this gospel and this church.  I love being a missionary, and I know I am going to be so sad to take this name badge off for the last time.  I love my family, and I know that we will be together for eternity.

Thank you all so much for your love and support.  Hope you all have a great week!
 

 
 
Family Home Evening

Everything is so green here

Sunday, September 29, 2013

Attack of the Demon Goose

It was great having a baptism this week.  Honestly, the whole week is better (especially the sacrament meeting) when you have someone being baptized and confirmed.  Unfortunately, we only had one this week.  We were planning on baptizing a couple, however the wife had to go to the emergency room with her grandson.  However, the husband was baptized and confirmed this week.  The smile that was on Brother Corson's face after he came out of the water makes it all worth it.  Also seeing his eyes full of tears after receiving the Holy Ghost, and knowing he is feeling things he has never felt before in his life is just really cool.  The wife has asked to reschedule when everything has settled down for a bit, which we are more than happy to do. 

The trial of the week was definitely spraining my ankle on Thursday.  I wasn't sure how I was going to explain to President Lopez that I sprained it while I was trying to escape an attack by a demon goose!  I just told Elder Cudac that this is where the testimony of two witnesses is really important!!! 
We were on our way to visit a less active family, and when we arrived we saw their two geese standing right in the walking path.  These geese (the big ones--that look like swans) are extremely territorial and they start honking at us, as they usually do.  I started thinking, one of these days one of them is going to attack us and I am going to have to explain to the family why I killed one of their animals.  Well, one day was actually Thursday!  The goose called my bluff and turned to face me, lowered his head, and charged.  I kicked it in the face, then stepped on its neck as it was snapping at my ankles.  It actually bit me and it hurt like *#&@, so I was getting out of there!  During my escape, I stepped on a rock and felt a pop in my ankle and realized I had sprained it . . . . . my manhood has been questioned ever since!  The ankle isn't swollen anymore and the bruising is finally starting to go away. 

Yesterday we taught Brother Ronald.  He is the one who was speaking Tagalog and I understood everything he was saying.  Well, this lesson was good but he came out and confessed that he is bisexual.  He hasn't broken the law of chastity yet, but says the desire is there.  We are going to be working a lot on that in the coming weeks!  I am hoping if he gets a testimony of the Book of Mormon and the church, he will have that mighty change of heart.  A funny comment he made was, "Elders, I think God gave me the heart of a woman for a reason."  I was just like um, that's not exactly how it works--God doesn't make mistakes!  He still isn't so sure, but we will see!

I can't believe I only have nine months left.  It is going by pretty fast.  Yesterday during sacrament meeting I started to think about how much I am going to miss a lot of these people.  It's just good to know that I will be with them in the next life if we all endure!

I love you guys!  Hope you have a great week!

Elder Ellis from Salt Lake City

Welcome to the land of never-ending rain & wet socks

My walking stick that Elder Cudac gave me after my goose attack


My best friends

Sunday, September 22, 2013

Zone Conference

This week was a good week.  We had some really good lessons and we had a lot of investigators at church which is always nice.

We had a zone conference this week that was a lot of fun.  We stayed in a hotel and I actually had a warm shower for the first time in 14 months!  I warned the other elders that I was going to sit and enjoy it, and I think I was in there for about an hour!  My favorite part was definitely a video that was shown.  I never could have imagined at the start of my mission how difficult this would be, but Elder Holland hit it right on the head when he said, "Salvation isn't easy, so why would the work of salvation be easy."

We have a lot of baptisms coming up.  The Corson family is next week.  They have the most pure faith I have ever seen in any two people.  They are 75 and 65 and have been married for 50 years.  They recognize us as messengers of the Lord and they believe everything that we tell them.  We taught them about tithing last week and then on Sunday they came up to me and said, "Elder, show us how to pay tithing."  They both have worked in the sugarcane fields their entire lives to support their family.  They both still work every day except Sunday.  They don't have a lot, but they paid 100 pesos.  That is enough to buy rice for about two weeks.  It was amazing and very humbling to see that.  It is amazing the people you meet here and how prepared they are by the Lord.

I love you all so much!  Hope you all have a great week!

Elder Shaffer (one of my MTC roomies)

Just hanging with the kids

The "brethren"

Problem with public transportation

Zone conference dinner

Our Zone

Sunday, September 15, 2013

Training Again

This week was a good week!  We were able to get quite a bit of work done and find a lot of new investigators to help build our teaching pool.  It was a little bit small because we had to split areas.  I have been praying like I have never prayed before for Heavenly Father's help with what He has asked me to do right now.  Training is hard enough even when you have done it a couple of times, but then add on the fact that neither my companion nor I speak the language and we are both new to the area.  Needless to say, I was humbled very quickly!  It is amazing to see Heavenly Father continue to put people in our paths who want to learn about this gospel.  Starting September 28, our weekly baptisms should start rolling!  I am very excited because it is going to be great to see the excitement in the ward when we start having baptisms.

My new companion, Elder Cudac is doing great.  We are as different as it comes, but he wants to work hard and we will get along fine. Yesterday at church everyone was all about the David and Goliath jokes because he is only 5'3".  He is kinda stressing out about the language and not being able to communicate with people in their own language, but I know he will do well.  He is studying the language very religiously and I think he will be able to speak it in no time.  He gave me a little scare on Sunday morning though.  He ate some food on Saturday night that apparently he is allergic to.  He wasn't sure what the food is, but when he woke up he had rashes all over his body. They have subsided now and everything should be okay.  I won't let him eat at that place again though!  Hopefully that is the extent of our sicknesses for the next two transfers--especially because the mosquitoes here seem to be everywhere and especially all over me!

Yesterday at church a sister told us she has a friend who really wants to listen to our message.  His name is Ronald and he is 18.  We went to visit him after church (it's 30 minutes away) and he wasn't at the house.  He showed up about 10 minutes after we got there.  Anyways, we were teaching the lesson and he was hanging on our every word.  We finished up the lesson and were talking about how he would be able to know that this is true through the Holy Ghost and how he feels.  After that , he goes into this story about how he had been praying to Heavenly Father to show him what he needs to do.  Then he talks about how he met the sister by chance and then he designed the dance for our relief society (they had some activity in San Carlos) and then when he was trying to get to our lesson today, just everything seemed to be stopping him.  But he said he made it and he could just feel like this is something special and this can help him change his life.  This was all in TAGALOG, but I promise you with everything that I have, that I understood him word for word.  I could recite it back perfectly!  It was the craziest experience with the gift of tongues that I have ever had, and I will never forget it.  You all know that I hate crying, and I can honestly say I have cried in public only two other times my whole mission, but I couldn't hold back the tears as he was explaining all this to me.  It was so awesome!

I am so thankful for all of your prayers.  I know that they have helped me a ton.  I know that Heavenly Father always helps you do things that seem impossible.  One of my favorite quotes is by Elder Boyd K. Packer.  He says, "Faith is taking that step into the dark, even when you can't see the path ahead of you."  I feel no truer words have ever been said!  At the beginning of this week, I had no idea what to do.  It is scary going out of your apartment with five names in your planner and not knowing how you are going to fill the rest of the day.  But, it all worked out well!

One of the photos I am including this week is of a little girl that lives next door to us.  She is so cute.  I have a window right by my desk and during our study time, she will stand by the window, wave to me, and say "fwends".  I love it!  Today as we were leaving the house, I was able to get a picture with her.  There is another little girl that does the same thing, but she wasn't there this morning.

I love you guys!

My new companion, Elder Cudac

My "fwend"
New missionaries and their trainers
Training meeting




Sunday, September 8, 2013

Another Unbelievable Experience

This was an okay week.  It would have been great if we would have had a baptism, but we didn't!  This is the first time in 8 weeks that we haven't had one and I hated it.  It makes the week go by so much smoother when you know someone is entering the waters of baptism.  The worst part is we still have two more weeks until we have one.  However, starting on the 28th we have solid commitments with progressing investigators all the way through October.  The best part is that it isn't just one person a week--some are two and three!  It is very exciting.,

So, I had the flu at the beginning of the week, so we weren't able to go out until Thursday.  I hate not being able to work, and I feel like that is why Kody lost his game.  You might tell me I am crazy, but I seriously feel like whenever I make a mistake or can't work, you are all going to have a bad week.  I know that isn't the way Heavenly Father works, but it drives me insane!!!

I had an interesting experience this week.  Remember that place I told you about that is way up in the mountains?  Well, we went there again on Saturday and we taught the people up there.  In the middle of a lesson with the older (and I mean like mid 70's) parents of a member, the grandma pulls out a small piece of white paper.  I didn't think anything of it, then she pulls out a little baggy with green leaves in it.  I saw that and just went (in my mind) this is not happening.  Well, this grandma pulled out the stuff and starts pulling apart and breaking up the leaves and setting them on the paper.  Then she rolls the paper--nice and tight--and at this point I am about dying!  There is no way I am talking about the restoration of the gospel and this lady is rolling a joint!  I decided it was probably pure tobacco or something.  Then she lit it and that thick smoke and horrible body odor stench of marijuana literally filled the room.  I am not kidding you!  We stopped the lesson and just got out of there.  I couldn't believe that a 70+  year old woman was trying to smoke us out!  She had no clue that it was even bad.  You guys are not going to believe half the stories I come home with, but I promise they will be true.  I'm a missionary and cannot lie!!!!!

Anyways, I hope you are all doing great.  I love each and every one of you!

Ready to get to work
The kids are so cute here
Cleaning the house of the Lord
Still a kid at heart